I Hate This!

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I Hate This!

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Okay now when was it decided that for bisexuals could date one guy and one girl at the same time? How is that even CLOSE to being okay? When you're with somebody, be WITH that somebody. Just because they are of different genders doesn't mean that it doesn't count.



I'm starting to think that being bisexual is just an excuse to screw everyone and it really sucks.
Turning over in interrupted slumber,

You ponder others, growing ever wakeful,

You've locked the vermin in the other bedroom,

To be so perfect causes you to feel so thankful,

Now find the fault because your boyfriend can't read,

Reflecting on to you is all the bitterness you need,

So unhappy, yet so preoccupied,

Never found beaten down with your forked tongue tied.



Your eulogy is like poetry,

But your mouth is like a magazine.



Queen dependency is cowering, please don't be confused,

You are vacant and submissive, receptive to abuse,

Virtue isn't tangible, and sense of self is dated,

Names constant on your cracked lips are now eviscerated,

Your spine is made of metal, Your veins are bound in electric tape,

And all along an impulse lights at random in your face,

Yough cought up an offering and forget which words are lies,

Then your skull echoes a singeing pop, as your brain is cauterized.

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Nobody decided it for everyone, everyone decides for themselves. You don't like it? So for you it's not ok. If I like it, it's ok for me. What's the big deal?
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Hahaha, it's definately not okay, but I'm currently dating a boy and a girl.

But I'm not really bisexual, I'm a lot more lesbian.

I just have issues saying no.

And my girlfriend is out of town for two months.



Bisexuals who think it's okay...well, that's their choice, you know?



We date who we want to date, you know?



It's not a generally accepted thing, I don't think. Just some people think it's okay?



However personally, I really don't believe in bisexuality.

They definately prefer one over the other.



Cheers,



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But i feel like the only one. The other other people who are bi say things like, "I have a girlfriend but she says it's okay to have a boyfriend, too" or vice versa. And when I say I don't agree with that they go, "Why not? It's different from being straight." But it's NOT! That's what everyone says right? Bi, gay, lesbian, straight. They're all supposed to be equal with the same rules applying to them and then they go and do stuff like this.
Turning over in interrupted slumber,

You ponder others, growing ever wakeful,

You've locked the vermin in the other bedroom,

To be so perfect causes you to feel so thankful,

Now find the fault because your boyfriend can't read,

Reflecting on to you is all the bitterness you need,

So unhappy, yet so preoccupied,

Never found beaten down with your forked tongue tied.



Your eulogy is like poetry,

But your mouth is like a magazine.



Queen dependency is cowering, please don't be confused,

You are vacant and submissive, receptive to abuse,

Virtue isn't tangible, and sense of self is dated,

Names constant on your cracked lips are now eviscerated,

Your spine is made of metal, Your veins are bound in electric tape,

And all along an impulse lights at random in your face,

Yough cought up an offering and forget which words are lies,

Then your skull echoes a singeing pop, as your brain is cauterized.

-"Mouth Like A Magazine" Showbread
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i agree w/ you...

i believe that relationships should be sacred and anyone cheating on anyone i find sad, but that is just my idea..



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it's not ok for you but it's ok for them. In Sweden when a few people date each other (all together, 3 or more) it's ok. Here it doesn't seem to be. If all of the 3 are happy this way, then why not? If one of them is not then maybe he has nothing to do in that relationship?
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Okay well that may be true in some countries, which is okay. But in the US, it's pretty frowned upon. I just don't see how that rarely applies to bisexuals
Turning over in interrupted slumber,

You ponder others, growing ever wakeful,

You've locked the vermin in the other bedroom,

To be so perfect causes you to feel so thankful,

Now find the fault because your boyfriend can't read,

Reflecting on to you is all the bitterness you need,

So unhappy, yet so preoccupied,

Never found beaten down with your forked tongue tied.



Your eulogy is like poetry,

But your mouth is like a magazine.



Queen dependency is cowering, please don't be confused,

You are vacant and submissive, receptive to abuse,

Virtue isn't tangible, and sense of self is dated,

Names constant on your cracked lips are now eviscerated,

Your spine is made of metal, Your veins are bound in electric tape,

And all along an impulse lights at random in your face,

Yough cought up an offering and forget which words are lies,

Then your skull echoes a singeing pop, as your brain is cauterized.

-"Mouth Like A Magazine" Showbread
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It is also ok in some foreign nations (like sweden) to let your children drink alcohol...



just becuase it is ok in other nations does not mean it is ok in our nation....



bigomy is illegal (well except the Mormen area in NV) ~ so whats the difference of being married to two people and dating two people ~ both is immoral and truly wrong in any way shape or form...



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I also agree. I whether you have multiple partners is up to you. Personally, i dont i would have more than one partner, not just because i think its wrong, but it'd be way too much work too.
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It is also ok in some foreign nations (like sweden) to let your children drink alcohol...



just becuase it is ok in other nations does not mean it is ok in our nation....



bigomy is illegal (well except the Mormen area in NV) ~ so whats the difference of being married to two people and dating two people ~ both is immoral and truly wrong in any way shape or form...



~Jeff~

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Bigomy?



You mean...polygomy?



Hahahah, you crack me up Jeff.



You and bigomy and swell.



It's kinda funny.



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yea fine, I agree, but those rules are made by someone, and we all just follow it. It's illegal, ok. But we make our own moral. I say, as long as you don't harm anybody, you're free to do what you please.
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I have to say I agree. Cheating is wrong no matter where you are. I guess if both partners know and are okay with it, more power to ya. But in the context of cheating, it's wrong no matter what orientation. *shrugs* To each his/her own I suppose.
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haha yeah thats what i ment jenna...

sorry im not smart during the non-school days...haha



but yeah my message is the same



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