why dont i like kissing?
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love_not_war
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why dont i like kissing?
so im like really old for this to be an issue, but it is.. i kinda sorta had my first real kiss this week.. but i dont really like it. not just for the fact im not good at it, and i have no idea what im doing. but, its not that that apealing to me.. and when he kisses my face its not much, but i like when he kisses my neck. but i dont wanna kiss him. and he said to kiss him.. but it dosnt sound apealing to me still.. thats not normal, is it? i cant live my life never kissing anyone. i cant just fuck guys and not kiss em. thats not good! what do i do?!
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Re: why dont i like kissing?
I wonder if a 'kinda sorta' first kiss is the same as a real first kiss...have you kissed a guy/girl on the lips before?
My first kiss was weird and I didn't like it at all. But for some reason I kissed my bf on the next date, and the date after that.... and just, got used to it.
Sometimes kissing grosses me out...and sometimes it doesn't. I don't think it's anything to be weird about.
Maybe you'd be more comfortable if you took it slower with the guy? Some kisses last 10 seconds and others can last 10 minutes... maybe you don't like the 10 minute kind.
My first kiss was weird and I didn't like it at all. But for some reason I kissed my bf on the next date, and the date after that.... and just, got used to it.
Sometimes kissing grosses me out...and sometimes it doesn't. I don't think it's anything to be weird about.
Maybe you'd be more comfortable if you took it slower with the guy? Some kisses last 10 seconds and others can last 10 minutes... maybe you don't like the 10 minute kind.
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Re: why dont i like kissing?
eh its normal just means it doesnt get your gears going, i wouldnt write it off completely but let him/her know its not a hugely important thing to you
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Re: why dont i like kissing?
o_0 All my kisses (except for my most recent ones <3) have been awkward and for the most part unpleasant (wet, dry, tongue, lifeless, etc)
It just something to get used to. It doesn't mean that you're weird. You just need some time to get used to the whole process. Once you figure out what works for you it'll be fun
It just something to get used to. It doesn't mean that you're weird. You just need some time to get used to the whole process. Once you figure out what works for you it'll be fun