How Can I Be Sure Im A Lesbian

[meandnotyou]

my whole life ive been confused , why did i think my friends(girls) were hot but not the boys they were obbsesing over? why did i think naked women were better to watch then men?why did i get mad that i couldnt share these thoughts because i was sure id have to be gay to. I have never gone out with a boy or a girl, and i think i couldnt do both (be bisexual) but my only real question i s how do i prove it to myself if i am a lesbian or if im straight . I cant just know thats never worked . I cant just make a boy or a girl go out with me, so how?

[Herman_the_Merman]

You say you've never found boys hot, but you have found girls hot. That's all the proof you need. Your sexual orientation does not define you, you define your sexual orientation.