Call Me Bitter...

[Saren]

I do understand what you mean by the 3rd wheel thing, and taking things to an extreme. If your friends ask you to hang out it shouldn't be that they don't pay attention to you. I mean, I don't mind going to places and holding hands, giving kisses (Got my own funny story about PDA- a little embarrassing for me but it was funny at the same time), just as long as they're not having sex in a parking lot where anyone can just pass at any time. There are certain instances for respect.



But it really doesn't bother me otherwise.

[SirPostAlot]

see me personally i think there is more wrong with this nation than PDA...

so it doesn't really bother me to see people kissing or w/e...

i mean there is a line which they shouldn't cross, but kissing, handholding, w/e is fine, in my eyes...

but TJ, its not about shutting off what you find unpleasent, its just about lettings others do what they want with their personal lives . . .

~Jeff~

[TimeMachine9906]

of course there is a line that shouldnt be crossed, and maybe callign it PDA was wrong, I didn't know what else to call it. I am 100% for PDA...but I'm not at all for the fact that people practically have sex in public. That's all. I'm sorry people got the wrong Idea.

[Jaegermeister]

but TJ, its not about shutting off what you find unpleasent, its just about lettings others do what they want with their personal lives . . .[/b]

Their personal lives become much less personal when they are shoving their tongues down each other's throats on a bench in the mall. Like I have said before: Hugging, holding hands, quick pecks, ect, ARE displays of affection. Making out is a form of foreplay. So if I let people "do what they want with their personal lives", then where does it stop? Sure, have sex on park benches. Sure, perform fellatio in parking lots. Go right ahead and give your girlfriend cunnilingus in your front yard. After all, they're just displaying their affection. It's their own lives, I shouldn't criticize right? Wrong. There is a line of propriety that shouldn't be crossed, and in my opinion, tolerating people mackin on each other in public is crossing it. It's great that people like each other and everything, but there's a proper time and place for this stuff, and a public setting isn't it. Like I said, no one is so isolated that what they do does not affect other people, so it may be your personal life, but it can sure be my personal life you're interrupting.



tJ

[SirPostAlot]

ok i agree w/ you on cetain things ...

but i think softcore - making out is ok, but after that it is too far - though it is their life . . .

but i mean making out like in the park or w/e i find ok becuase it is thier life, but people doing anything over that is too much...



maybe its my rural living where i don't see anything to this realm is why i am not very argumentative against it...



~Jeff~