what do i do now?

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xxwhereisfredxx
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what do i do now?

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well tonight we got drunk (me and my best friend) and we fooled around. we're both 100% straight...but we did alot!! and i mean ALOT! probably as much as girls can even do..... so anyways....we have never EVER done anything like this before........and i just dont know where to go from here! i dont think we want to keep it up but i mean...i feel all weird and uncomfortable around her now........like i dont know what to say!!! PLEASE HELP!!!!!!! what do i do now?!?!
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uh... actually Im confused too after reading your post. LOL.



Anyways. I believe that it'll be best for you to sort out what you're feeling now first and then talk to her about it. I think after talking about it, you may feel less awkward around her. I dont think by "doing a lot" will effect your sexuality if you believe that you 2 are both 100% straight. Sometimes we need some time to sort things out.



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like are you totally sure that your friend is completely straight?? what if she isn't and you were to say something about what happened that like hurt her a lot. you should ask her how she feels about what all hapened before you say any of your feelings cuz things like that happen, and it would really suck.


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It just sounds like you two did some, exploring of sexuality (while drunk) I wouldn't worry about it. If you didn't enjoy it, then don't do it again. I do see and issue of communication, you girls (not guys- the term "you guys" I hate) should talk... ;)
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hm...

well both of u were drunk then

so u guys probably didn't know what u were doing

don't feel bad about it cuz u probably won't do that while u r sane

as long as ur friend didn't take that seriously (as in.. u like her in a diff. way)

then i think there should be no problem :rolleyes:
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