1 Year...
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look at it this way.......theres only one one year mark........and obviously you made it through........you can make it through.........
TJ[10:13 PM]: no not really..... it's all so.... like wow..... screw steps, you took a fuckin jet pack and strapped it on yourself and rocketed your way forward (thats my big bro)
And I'm going to extremes
Tomorrow I will change
And today won't mean a thing
I'm a bitch, I'm a tease
I'm a goddess on my knees
When you hurt, when you suffer
I'm your angel undercover
I've been numb, I'm revived
Can't say I'm not alive
You know I wouldn't want it any other way
Meredith Brooks-Bitch
And I'm going to extremes
Tomorrow I will change
And today won't mean a thing
I'm a bitch, I'm a tease
I'm a goddess on my knees
When you hurt, when you suffer
I'm your angel undercover
I've been numb, I'm revived
Can't say I'm not alive
You know I wouldn't want it any other way
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i'm sorry hun :[
but like she said, you got to the one year mark. && shes in a better place now
but like she said, you got to the one year mark. && shes in a better place now

Little Miss F*cker,
Don't Move An Inch

I looked at myself
So many things I hate in me
So many things are so hard to believe
I can hear the whole world calling me
Used to be all that i wanted
You to see all that i you to be
does anyone care
Add me.
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Don't Move An Inch

I looked at myself
So many things I hate in me
So many things are so hard to believe
I can hear the whole world calling me
Used to be all that i wanted
You to see all that i you to be
does anyone care
Add me.
myspace
*Jamie*
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Born Feb 9th, 2007
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OMG! June 15?? June 16 was the one year anniversary of my good friend, Brittany's death. She had cancer though. I'm so sorry for your loss, and i know that it doesn't help when people say "at least they're in a better place." I don't know about you but i've hated the number 16 ever since. Stay strong man...maybe your gf and Brit are keeping each other company.
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I'm so sorry.
How are you doing? Probably a stupid question, but I'm asking anyway. Hanging in there? Feel free to vent to me if you need.
<3
How are you doing? Probably a stupid question, but I'm asking anyway. Hanging in there? Feel free to vent to me if you need.
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Romans 5:8 "God demonstrates His own love toward us in that while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us."
"If you judge people, you have no time to love them." Mother Theresa
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Re: 1 Year...
I am so sorry about your loss. I know what you feel right now, July 25th would have been my nanas birthday, i miss her loads, but i am sure she is in a better place, along with your girlfriend.
You should go do something that you both enjoyed, it might cheer you up a littl bit. Sorry
You should go do something that you both enjoyed, it might cheer you up a littl bit. Sorry
Now I still wonder why did you say goodbye
You let me stand here all alone
The pain inside my heart, it's tearing me apart
Cause now I stand here on my own
But now I cry myself to sleep
Only you are what I need
We can make it if we try
I am nowhere without you
I don't know what I should do
Cause my tears will never dry
And I still wonder why
I hope that you will see how much you mean to me
I don't understand why you have gone
The pain inside my heart, it's tearing me apart
Cause now I stand here on my own
You let me stand here all alone
The pain inside my heart, it's tearing me apart
Cause now I stand here on my own
But now I cry myself to sleep
Only you are what I need
We can make it if we try
I am nowhere without you
I don't know what I should do
Cause my tears will never dry
And I still wonder why
I hope that you will see how much you mean to me
I don't understand why you have gone
The pain inside my heart, it's tearing me apart
Cause now I stand here on my own
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Hey, I know how you feel. The three year anniversary of my brother's death just passed, and even though it's been three years, it doesn't necessarily make that day any easier. That whole "you made it through the first year thing" is not completely true, at least not for me, because after the 1 yr anniversary of my brother's death passed, i felt like i should start to "get over" or be able to "move on" easier. I want to tell you that everyone takes a different amount of time to deal with stuff and however long it takes you to cope with this loss, is normal. Don't let anyone rush you or tell you how you should feel. The other thing that i can tell you for sure, is that it does and it will get easier. I still think about my brother every single day, and some days are harder than others. Most of the time i'm okay, but sometimes i still break down and cry like he just died. The hardest deaths to get over are the sudden ones.
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