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well i want to do something special for my girlfriend for xmas, i want it to be something creative, shes not materialistic, i was thinking like a scrapbook or something with things about our past together or doing some sort of "treasure hunt" to her finding me at a nice resturant. what should i do? What have you guys/gals done for your significant other or what are you planning on doing? if it makes any difference we have been together for a little over 3 years now thanks in advance!

Awww. Those ideas are romantic, I like them.



Hmm. You're going to hate me for this because it doesn't give you any specific present advice. But I would say to just find a gift thats meaningful and special - not something that just anyone can buy her (or would think of buying her). That said.... If she likes it, and you're sure you know her style, jewellery always goes down a treat.



If shes a hint dropping kind of girl, listen to her as she's already got a good idea in her mind of what she'd love to get. And if she says 'don't buy me this/that/the other' listen to that too because she means it! (Unless its something extravagant that shes only saying no to because she thinks its too much to ask but you are fine with it. Haha).



Hmm. No other thoughts except that shes lucky to have someone who puts this much thought into presents for the one he loves. Good luck present hunting.



Take care,



Lena.

Why not all of the above? I think you should make the resturaunt a lunch thing and end the treasure hunt with watching the sunset... or even stargazing.



If you go stargazing, make the stars into a rorschsack(sp?) test but give her the answers... for example:

"that group of stars right there... they look like... the guy who asked us for money after our first date!"

(Try to steer clear of using that one, bums aren't usually good date talk unless working at a soup kitchen or charity work was anywhere in your relationship)