help

[sadandlonely87]

im still seeing the same person, but everytime he drinks he says stuff that hurts me. like last night we went out so he can hang out with his friends and drink, but im not 21 so i was getting bored. after we left there i told him i didn't really have fun and i just wanted to go home, but then he decided with out asking me that we will stop at his friends house. i told him i didn't want to. then he started getting all mad at me saying that he can't do anything. thats a bunch of bull. he was like we are done and that he can't take it anymore, but then today he was fine. i don't know what he wants or what he wants to do. if i bring it up again im afraid that he will leave. he also put his hands on me by pushing me..i need help

[InnocenceLost57]

Does he drink a lot? To me, these seem like some possible warning signs. If he's getting this angry, and ESPECIALLY if he's starting to shove you around when he's drunk, you might really want to think about possibly getting out of the relationship.



If you don't think you could do that right now, maybe try asking him why he acts that way when he drinks, or why he thinks you don't let him do things? He might need to see someone professional to try to sort things out.



I hope things get better.