I'm Mad At Them

[firesign]

It's really annoying me when girls at my school acts like I have to open the door for them or do something for them. I'm not their made so why the heck are they all acting like that. They also don't mind their own business. I hate them all so much I'm talking about the junior and senior and sophomore and freshman. They are all so ignorant. I'm getting an impression their doing it because they're prejudiced or because they know I'm not rich or popular. So annoying. It makes me mad. I wish it would just stop. They are so rude!

[Dobby]

Welcome to life. If people seem to think they deserve a step up on yo for some reason or another, they usually take it; however, there will come a day when one of them will probably need your help, and then they will be under your foot, and you can decide to squish them, or you can decide to pick them back up and set them back off on their merry way again. And you know what? Sometimes, just sometimes, they don't forget if you help them.

[Jesykah ^_^]

Don't bow down to them bitches. If they try to get you to do something, ignore them.

[Beautiful]

Eh, people are like that. exsepecially "popular" girls. all you can do is tell them off or just ignore them. I hate people like that

[firesign]

I did try to ignore them but it didn't stop. [/SIZE]

[andi]

damn...i'm so angry at them after reading your post i wish i could just go and punch all of them!!!! i've never had any problems like that in my highschool or middle school or elementary school...i mean no one ever expected anyone else to bow down to them or open doors for them (unless it was a bf opening a door for his gf) but yea...i'm sorry! that really sucks, i dont know what to tell you...except i think you should confront them and be like "look i'm not your servant and despite whatever beliefs you may have you are no better than i am so leave me alone" seriously, stand up to them, if you ignore them then they think that they have power over you, like you're afraid of them. i'm not saying to fight them because i know in my heart that doesnt solve anything, but do stand up for yourself and i'm not saying that *poof* they'll magically change or anything, but at least they'll know that you a have a voice and you're not afraid to use it.



andi

[Omi]

Originally posted by firesign@Feb 9 2005, 06:40 AM

I did try to ignore them but it didn't stop. [/SIZE]

[right][/right]

You just have to keep ignoring their requests. If they want you to open the doors for them, just walk slower than they do, so they have to open the doors for themselves. And if you happen to be infront, you only open the door for yourself. You open and you walk in. You dont even need to hold the door long for all of them. They have hands they can use to hold the door. So... here's the drill... open the door, walk in, hold one hand at the door for one sec then move forward. LIke you'd do when you walk into a department store. If you are friends with them, just go up a couple steps away from the door and wait for them to come in. Hope this is not confusing... but hope this is an idea.

[firesign]

<span style=\'color:blue\'ANd when I hurried up letting go of the door they acted the same way like it's some sort of trend. DOes anyone think I should talk to a dean or a teacher about it. I already talked about it to my mom and she said what I should do is like let go of the door quick and ignore them. It's so embarassing to have to go the dean and I don't even know them and it's like all the female students in my school are doing it to me. One time I saw a female student came in the room and she copied the way I get out at the door. It was similar letting go of the door like I did.