I Don't Know What To Do.

[Jesykah ^_^]

I'm stuck between two people. One who just wants me for sex and one who I love with all of my heart. The answer should be obvious as to what I should do, but I really don't know. I'm just fucking angry that shit like this always happens to me. AHHHHH

[cadoink]

well the answer is kinda obvious but it all depends on what u want...do u want sex or do u want someone who truely loves u? this is the kindof thing that u have to figure out for urself, not listen to what others say becuz if u do what others want then u wont be happy in the long run....my opinion is go for ur heart....good luck!

[dead rose]

Originally posted by cadoink@Feb 27 2005, 05:50 PM

well the answer is kinda obvious but it all depends on what u want...do u want sex or do u want someone who truely loves u? this is the kindof thing that u have to figure out for urself, not listen to what others say becuz if u do what others want then u wont be happy in the long run....my opinion is go for ur heart....good luck!

[right][/right]

i agree with cadoink. its totally up to you and something that no one else can decide for you. listen to your heart and do what you feel is right.

[Jesykah ^_^]

Yeah I know. I shouldn't even be TRYING to think it over. It's just that... wow... Lamonte (my boyfriend) is 18. He's already been through life, and is an adult, and is at the age where he himself can figure out what he wants, ya know?



Me. I'm only 14. I'll be 15 in about 2 weeks. But still, a part of me feels like I need to experience more rather than just settling with Lamonte. However...I know I love him, I can't picture myself with anyone BUT him, and he's my everything.



Brian (the other guy)... would only use me. But maybe that's what I really want... maybe all I really want is to have fun? I'm not sure.



Bleh. I'll more than likely end up staying with Lamonte. It confuses ME to even THINK that I'm THINKING about taking a break from him... he's my world, my everything... the only one I've ever loved. Eh. It's frustrating.



I'm so confused.



But I *want* Brian.



But then again, I don't see why.



Who knows.



Maybe I should move this to relationships...I think I'll do that.



Thanks for listening.

[archers_angel]

I know you're very confused right now, but you have to think about this clearly.



If you break up with Lamonte, imagine how upset he will be. If he's that upset, surely imagining him being that upset, will really upset you. I know when I think about those I love hurting, it makes me want to cry, and I bet you're the same.

I know you wouldn't want to hurt Lamonte.



And you've said a number of times that Brian's just a player who flirts with everyone. To him, you might be no more than a game. He might want to prove to himself that he's great enough to break you up from your boyfriend, then once he has you, he might not be interested anymore.



Yes, Lamonte is older, and has experienced more, but trust me, 18 IS NOT old, and he has so much more to experience and learn, and you can do that together. When you stop loving him, then is the right time to call things off, but while you still feel so strongly about him, don't hurt him, because you'll only hurt yourself.



Brian makes you feel good about yourself, and theres nothing wrong with that, but Lamonte sounds like he's worth more than a billion Brians, and surely the feeling of being loved&secure is better than any compliments Brian can give you.



Brian wants you for sex. Lamonte wants you for you. It really is that simple.

[lordoftheunderworld]

umm if your only 15 no sex at all. thats first off. i know its like what the hell. why am i saying that especialy since i had sex young but still id stay with the guy who u can have a seriouse relationship and lots of love.

[dead rose]

Lamonte (my boyfriend) is 18. He's already been through life, and is an

first of all...youre 15 and hes 18 so thats like illegal. and 2nd, hes only 18, ill be 18 in 22 days (cough not that im counting..haha) but like i havent been through life, lifes just starting for real at 18! 18 is still a baby, young and still counfuzed about a lot of thing, i know i am. sweetie maybe you should just move on. i mean, he he just wants you for sex then well...i dont think thats right not to mention illegal. but thats just my thoughts on this. hope i helped.

[Jesykah ^_^]

Originally posted by dead rose@Feb 28 2005, 11:34 PM

Lamonte (my boyfriend) is 18. He's already been through life, and is an

first of all...youre 15 and hes 18 so thats like illegal. and 2nd, hes only 18, ill be 18 in 22 days (cough not that im counting..haha) but like i havent been through life, lifes just starting for real at 18! 18 is still a baby, young and still counfuzed about a lot of thing, i know i am. sweetie maybe you should just move on. i mean, he he just wants you for sex then well...i dont think thats right not to mention illegal. but thats just my thoughts on this. hope i helped.

[right][/right]

Brian is the one who wants me for sex. Lamonte and I have never had sex. Ever. With anyone. Both of us are virgins. Lamonte is not using me for sex, if he was, we'd be broken up by now because both of us are still virgins. Just thought I'd clear that up...



To archers_angel:

I think that's the best way anyone could have explained this to me. Thanks... *so* much.