Help...

[RockBSK1432]

Just have mixed feelings for both genders, but am very turned on by females. I am 18/m/NJ. Have never had a girlfriend or a boyfriend. Am lonely, but want a girlfriend. Will be graduating in the Spring from High School.

[SirPostAlot]

It just sounds like your hormones are lonely, as you stated...

i mean the way you talk, you are deff. into females and perhaps you are into males and such, meanign that you are bi, but perhaps, like i said, it is just your hormones striving for some attention...



so i would say that if you really want to see if you are bi or not then to just let things play out by being w/ a guy or w/e...



but i wouldn't jump to any conclusions about your sexuality, just live each day to the fullest and see where things lead out!



~Jeff~

[RockBSK1432]

Definitely believe I am just lonely...is that so wrong?

[candela]

no thats not wrong at all everyone wants someone to love them or care about them - its natural.

[Jaegermeister]

I would say that in your "desperate" state, the fact that you are able to recognize in yourself a sort of lust for guys would be a stong hint at your bisexuality. You probably do lean more heterosexxual, and that's fine, but I think you'll find that you will still be open to the possibility of it happening.



tJ

[Saren]

I agree with TJ.

Wouldn't say to let it drive you insane, but at the age we're at, most of us do. Talk to all the other confused teenagers around here. Around your area. Anywhere. There are people still trying to figure themselves out. Not only sexuality, but if they want a commited relationship of any sort. I don't see that where you live has anything to do with it, though.



Don't let this take over your life. You can't push yourself too hard because people notice that and they tend to get nervous. Take it easy and I think things may start to chill off for you soon enough.

[RockBSK1432]

Thank you all so much.

[Paris In Flames]

That sounds like a wanted ad.



Um, anyhow, you can't know until you experiment with both genders.

I have a friend who claims that he's gay, but I really just think he's lonely. Do you think that you like both genders because you're lonely?



Again, the only way is to fool around. And with that said, I suggest you find somebody?



Cheers,



Jenna

[RockBSK1432]

I am lonely, yes. I am excited for college and a new beginning of sorts next fall.