I don't know what to do

[SadAngel2005]

HI,

I am this relationship! We both say I LOVE YOU, but I am not so sure he means it! When my cousins come in I feel invisible! He is all wraped up in sex! I want to know if there is more to this relationship! I want to know if he really loves me or what! Plus since we have been together he has been trying to change me! What am I supposed to do ?

[Beautiful]

ask him, see what he says.

and ask him what love means. that usually sums it up.

[FiZzBaW]

Friend,



If you are feeling that way, it is very important that you talk to him and find out how he feels. If you two truly love each other, you should be able to have a conversation about those issues.



In my opinion, you should NOT have to change yourself for someone else, they should love you for who you are. Don't get me wrong, compromise is important, but that is both people giving a little for the good of both, forcing someone to change just means you are not likely compatible.



I really think you need to have a nice chat with him, so that you can ease your feelings and worries.



-FiZz

[Nikki]

try to stop the sex for a little while (say that you can't do it for the moment, you have an infection or anything) and see his reaction through the days. If he starts seeing you less than usual, asks you all the time "so when can we..?" and stuff, then maybe he's only there for sex. If he keeps being sweet and understanding with you, doesn't rush you into sex, means he's there for you and only you

But don't just ask him.. I mean, what do you think his answer will be? Of course he'll say he love you. And if he really does, you questionning him will only piss him off coz he'll feel that you don't trust him.

[Nikki]

oh yea, and don't you EVER change for anybody! You may lose that person, but losing yourself is much worse..